"The act of facing overwhelming odds produces greatness and beauty."
Malcolm Gladwell from David & Goliath
So, I have a lot of friends going through a lot of things at the moment and I am just heartbroken. I generally live my life by the motto, (FYI: I am not one of those people who has a life mantra or such. If you are one of those then good on you. I could never commit to a few words, I change my mind too much)...anyway back to the motto: KEEP IN MIND THE BIG PICTURE HERE. Which honestly works for most things, like a stressful work situation, a demanding manager, an awkward comment said by a friend, a bad hair day (of which there are SO many), a few extra pounds on the bum (ditto on the SO many...), a 'wonder if I'll have enough money to the end of the month' thought...etc etc etc. Which in comparison to the big picture are relatively menial and pathetic quite honestly. But then what happens when the THING that is happening to you is the BIG PICTURE - potentially damaging your current life. What then world. What then? Are we meant to crumble into a pit and refuse to change, refuse to adapt, refuse to try make this THING work so that instead of being the BIG PICTURE thing it becomes the norm. It becomes a part of who we are and we accept it and move on, we do what needs to be done and fix what can be fixed and let be what we have no control over.
I have come to realise that surrounding me are people who are so incredibly STRONG and BRAVE. People my age that are facing the giant right now and NOT wondering how on earth they are going to make it through but completely confident that they are going to be just fine. I am blown away by the strength. I am TWENTY FOUR years old - these are my TWENTIES. I am meant to be you know, enjoying life, not worrying about anything, just chilling out, having a jol (SAFFA word for party) and then something rocks the comfortable boat and all of a sudden life is turned upside down. I cannot say how I would react - but to those that are reading this that feel like they are facing the BIG THING, know that I am inspired by you. Know that you are an encouragement to not only me. Know that if I could I would defeat the giant for you. Know that either way the giant will be defeated.
Keep Your Head Up - Ben Howard
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ADP65wbBUpc&feature=kp